Another Sex Blog

Like that wasn’t already obvious from the way I like to WRITE about my experiences.

Having my photos on AFF, *especially* the one in my photo albums, is such a huge turn-on. I mean, the thought of having erotic photos of me looked at was always a major fantasy of mine, but sometimes the fantasy is really all there is. The reality either doesn’t match up in excitement, or is even unpleasant in real life.

My biggest turn-ons are mental. Not tangible. I get turned on thinking about telling people about what turns me on. I masturbate thinking about a guy *telling* me what he’s going to do… as opposed to thinking about having things done to me or doing things myself.

When I first posted my profile on AFF — the one I have now, but also, actually, the one I had right before the current one — I got some emails from guys telling me that reading it got them hard. A few told me they jerked off while reading it.

Wow. MY fantasies were charged for weeks with those thoughts! Thoughts of thoughts. And now thinking that there are people seeing, and hopefully becoming aroused by, my recent “x-rated” pictures… every time I think of it I get hot and bothered. (Very inconvenient since my hips have a tendency to start rocking involuntarily when I’m getting horny!)

I’m reeeeeealy tempted to post more of those in my profile so that more people can see them. (Ok, well more paying members anyway. I know you can’t see them full-sized if you’re not a paying member. Too bad, cheapskates. If I can pay, so can you! )

So, my questions. Two. First, is that just a really bad idea? To post them? Is it just asking for trouble? Second, for those of you who both read my blog AND are in my network and have seen the pics I’m talking about, which one/s should I post for all to see if I do decide to do so?

LOL. Thinking about what some people *might* think about IF they see them… I’m already turned on by that!

I’m so odd. But, you know, in a good way. At least I keep *myself* entertained!

This is a post from my blog on AdultFriendFinder. And it’s directed at other AFF people, so it doesn’t completely make sense out of that context, but what the hell.
I officially went on a second, uhm, “date.”

And have photos to prove it. (Thank you, Mr. I! )

I was extremely extraordinarily way too self-conscious having my picture taken in such a formal setting. Well, ok, definitely an informal scenario, but the setting, with lights and all, was formal.

I hate being ignored, but I found that I don’t like being the center of attention all that much more.

I could have sworn I had something else to comment on, but I can’t remember what. Damn. Oh well.

Often, I think about things I want to post or write about here when I’m driving in my car. Then, of course, I completely forget.

Those are the important updates anyway… had a successful second meeting AND have new pictures.

(Right now, the new pics are only in my albums[1]; I *think* I’ll have ones later ??? that I can post publicly, but I’m not sure yet.)

Yipee!!

[1] Albums are photo albums on the AFF site that only members of your “network” can view.

If you’re reading this on anothersexblog.blogspot.com and I know you and you want to see any of them, let me know. I’m not posting the pics here because I don’t really want them out there for just anyone to see. (Yes, I realize that since they exist, the potential is there for anyone to see, but at least it’s not like I’m tossing them out the window!) AND there are people I know IRL who read this who really REALLY do NOT want to see them! LOL!

Meant to write this a while ago.

Actually, I was out on a “date” with a guy who said he “already” wanted to see me again. Before we even got naked. LOL. So, I told him, well, good thing I didn’t post my new rule about no more second dates then, huh? He took that to mean he had no chance at a second date. I meant that it would be ironic if I’d posted that I no longer was going on second dates and then immediately went out with a guy who I wanted to see again. Anyway. That’s besides the point.

So, why no more 2nd dates? No second chance, do-overs, repeats, sequels, etc.

I self-identify as a slut. That I *want* to be a slut. I do NOT like feeling like a callgirl. Yes, there’s a difference. And it’s not just the fact that I ain’t getting paid.

The first dates are fun. Exciting. Interesting at the very least. There’s at least some talking. Laughing. And during the sex itself? I’m making assumptions about the guys’ intentions here, I know that. I think they’re trying to impress me. They try, at least, to make it enjoyable for me, too. And any “dates” after that? It’s all about what they want.

Ugh, that doesn’t sound right. I mean, I *like* doing the pleasing. That’s not the problem in itself. There’s no effort to get me off. There’s no non-sex foreplay. There’s rarely much sexual foreplay either. It’s very very similar to what I imagine (cuz I don’t have actual personal experience with this) a callgirl experience is like. Call her up. Tell her what you want. She does it. Nothing in return. (Well, at least a callgirl gets paid, I suppose.) Then send her on her way.

Ok, I sound a LOT more bitter than I am. I’m not. I’m not mad at men. Or any thing else negative. I’m just saying that what happens on second dates is not what I’m looking for. Live and learn, right?

So, only first dates from now on. But I reserve the right to change my mind for certain people. Like the guy I mentioned above.

With him… I ended up drinking too much and we didn’t get to the good stuff til the next morning. And, yes, it was good. Even if the jewelry on the pierced cock clinked on my teeth a bit too much. I’m sure with some practice I could get used to it, right?

He wanted to spray my face with his cum. As long as I get to lick some of it up… sounds good to me! Yum.

Plus he was really fucking good looking.

Why do I even attempt to write about any of my experiences when it just makes me horny?

I got a new toy recently… .
I think I better go make sure it works. G’nite.