Updated profile (on AdultFriendFinder)
Just a tiny bit. Don’t know if anyone’s even interested.
New part (added to other parts already there):
If you can’t handle a direct response from me explaining why/if I’m not interested, don’t contact me. (That’s not as mean as it may sound — I’m likely to be trying to help you succeed with someone else.)
I can’t bear to change my profile, but my “objectives” have changed over the last years.
I’m ultimately looking for an LTR. Not just FWB, definitely not NSA, and not necessarily monogamous.
Below are my fantasies. I’m ok with playacting. I’m ok with acting them out for real *with the right person.* I’m definitely ok with exploring your fantasies.
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Feel free to give ME any advice on my profile, too. I’ll try not to take criticism poorly. 
June 14th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
No advice on your profile, but oddly I was just looking at your gangbang pics, and the lingerie pics you sent me a couple years ago.
Still fabulous. A woman like you should be able to get the situation she wants with ease.
June 21st, 2009 at 9:41 pm
We are on several swinger sites like http://www.muah.com/ and we always think its the respectful thing to reply to those that have shown interest. We aren’t rude in our responses, just tactfully honest. However, some people are always going to be hurt by being rejected and will respond with insults. Once upon a time I would engage in the conversation but I have since realized its a complete waste of time.
You are right to respond and don’t sweat it if they aren’t ok with why you feel you aren’t compatible.
June 24th, 2009 at 3:41 am
So it goes a little something like this: A few months ago I sprung for an AFF account. It has since expired, but while I was on there I stumbled upon your profile. A hot, short haired, sex positive librarian? Count me in. I was intrigued to say the least. I couldn’t see your face, but I could tell that I liked style by what I could see of your haircut and the way your tits burst out of your shirt. I looked at your pictures, I read about your adventures on you AFF blog, and I have to say that all of it made me incredibly worked up.
I was still living in Chicago at the time, but since then work has taken me back to my hometown in Detroit. I still am in Chicago on a regular basis though. Fast forward a few months later, and it is late at night, and I’m still thinking about that sexy librarian that lives in Chicago that I never got around to talking to. I logged into AFF, tried to find you again, did a google search, and here I am.
So basically, if you want to talk to me sometime, I would absolutely love to. It’s not everyday you find a girl like yourself, and as a nerdy, indie rocker/graphic designer, I think it is pretty safe to say that you really fit all my fetishes. A totally strong, intellegent, sex positive, librarian who knows what she wants? Sounds incredible to me.
Ryan
July 28th, 2009 at 12:00 am
Oh jeez. I just had to follow up a comment like ^Ryan^ here…
I found your blog thanks to your post on Reddit. Well, actually, somebody else’s reply on Reddit. Anyway, your posts piqued my interest, which is unfortunately relatively uncommon. I sense that we might be able to have some very intriguing conversations.
A little about me. I’m younger. I have a mind that’s always racing, and I’m usually starved for anyone to talk to. I really enjoy trying to see the world through somebody else’s eyes. I’m outrageously horny, even for a guy, but I really dislike random hookups. I get off on giving my partner pleasure, which is relatively hard to do when you know next-to-nothing about her. I had my first orgasm with a partner while fingering her. With a dedicated partner, I’ll average having sex 3-4 times a day, which means that the majority of the girls I’ve dated can’t keep up.
I’m geeky, except I’m too scatterbrained to be a good one. I’ll get interested in one topic, which will spark my topic in another, and so on. I have never, in my entire life, read one book at a time. Right now I’m reading six. I also have a talent for facts, and so any conversation with me is going to be peppered with interesting tidbits I’m reminded of.
I’ve always done this, ever since I was a little kid, which annoyed the hell out of my parents. As a result, they repeatedly told me to stop talking, which has led to me being relatively quiet. I guess it makes me a good listener, but an unfortunate side effect is that I can only really express myself through writing.
Anyway, I really would like to get to know you. If any of this intrigues you, and if I haven’t scared you off, shoot me an email. lm.fstr@gmail.com
Liam
November 25th, 2009 at 2:36 am
Классно всё: и картинка ,и информация
July 9th, 2010 at 7:50 am
give me email
m_kawauchi@enzantrades.jp