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This post REALLY won’t make sense unless you are or have been on AFF.  But, fair is fair and I’m posting it here same as it’s posted there.

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Friend invites and whether or not I accept them are kinda arbitrary. Just kinda.

It’s not like I actually add up the pluses and minuses and then calculate whether to accept or deny. Not at all… but these are the factors that contribute to my impulsive decisions on whether or not to click Accept or Deny.

Compliments are a plus. I’ve mentioned many times that I’m a complete sucker for compliments. It doesn’t take much for me to appreciate them as long as they’re not obviously made up. i.e. don’t compliment my long legs when I’m only 5′3″!

Nothing in the invite and no email sent at all is a minus. Huh? You just want free porn? Uhm, no.

However, no email and no text in the invite AND a hot pic PLUS your own album, might get an Accept. Apparently, I’m more visual than most women. I like drooling over hot pics, too.

You’re a regular poster on my blog. I’m much more likely to accept an invite. OTOH, if you invited me a long time ago and I denied you for whatever reason and *then* you became a blog poster… I think you’re prevented from inviting me again? Let me know in the blog. I’ll send you an invite. Unless I hate your posts on my blog.

Sometimes it’s completely a matter of how horny I am when I’m looking at the invites. I’m an exhibitionist at heart. If I’m turned on, I’m more likely to say yes. Roll of the dice.

Did I mention compliments are good? lol.

Anyway, if I deny you a “friend” request, it’s probably because I didn’t see a reason to grant it. Not the other way around.

Just FYI for all you guys out there.

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