Going out alone

This is a question I posted on AdultFriendFinder recently:

So, I often go out by myself. I go to restaurants alone. I
go to movies alone. I go shopping alone. I’m totally
comfortable being alone.

But what about going to a bar? Is it really weird to see a woman
alone at a bar?

Also, any suggestions for bars (or restaurants with bars)
in the Chicagoland area where a single woman could go alone,
people watch, and not be either in danger or seem like a complete
weirdo?

Thanks for any input.

Wow, some of the responses.  Geesh.  A lot of them were warning me about the danger of going out alone as a woman.  Some people included going to restaurants or movies alone along with that.  WTF?  I go LOTS of place all by my lonesome.  There are really people who are afraid to do that?

Second, I’m not some naive bumpkin.  Yes, I realize there *are* dangers out there, but I’m not an idiot.  Argh.  Anyway, that wasn’t at all what my question was about.  I’m just irritated by some of the responses I got.

I did get a few helpful answers.  Upscale hotel bars.  Restaurants with bars.

Thinking about trying it tonight.

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