Sex and food
I just had an epiphany. Ok, that’s exaggerating, but it was an interesting realization for me.
My ideal for a romantic/sexual relationship is the same as how I feel about food. I don’t think I put that quite right…
See, I really like trying new foods. There’s not all that many foods I actively dislike. Though, some, once I’ve tried I probably wouldn’t seek out again. And I like trying foods that are unusual or that most people don’t like. But, I like having my standby favorites to go back to. And it’s not like those foods are just comfort foods. I really really like them. Love ‘em. They make me happy and give me enjoyment. But, I wouldn’t want to never try anything new ever again even if I could have ALL my favorites as much as I wanted any time I wanted.
It’s the same, kind of, you know, in a metaphorical way, for relationships.
I just haven’t found my favorite yet.