Anything That Moves
Wednesday, February 28th, 2007Guys will fuck anything that moves.
That’s what a lot of people believe. Or say they believe anyway.
I think about sex a lot. (I know, you’re saying “Noooo. Really?”) I don’t mean fantasizing, though I do that, too. I think about psychological and physical aspects of sex. I just find it fascinating and have the hardest time understanding that not everyone does, but that’s another thing I spend time thinking about… 
So, the idea that men aren’t picky when it comes to who they’ll have sex with is one of those concepts, ideas, memes, that I sometimes ponder. I’m talking about basically a horny one-night stand, btw, not an ongoing relationship — even of the No Strings Attached variety.
So, guys, is it true?
It seems to me that people tend to hook up, either short term or long term, with people similar to themselves. In terms of looks. Good looking people with good looking people. Average with average. Etc. Yeah, there are the exceptions — the really hot model with the super rich not-so-hot older guy being the stereotypical example. But, you know, in general.
But when it’s “Hey, I wanna get laid tonight. Let’s see who I can take home…?”
Women (in general — this is all in general, I realize it could be different for any one individual) tend to only have sex with men they’re attracted to. Now that could be completely physical, but women also tend to find a guy that they really LIKE for whatever reason more attractive. As they get to know a guy, and begin to like him, their attraction actually grows. Sorry, I’m digressing.
Hmmm… it just occurred to me that there’s also the beer-goggles factor to consider.
Yes, this is *really* the kind of thing I spend LOTS of time wondering about. 