Another Sex Blog

Yeah, I like porn. I think I posted about that before, haven’t I? I just came across this site… uh, wait, no that is not a pun… anyway… Ex Girlfriend Pictures. L O V E! I T!

Ok, so yeah, it’s wrong to post naked pictures of an ex online. Though, a lot of them seem to NOT be revengefully motivated, too. What I really love is reading the comments. These are, for the most part, fairly average girls. They’re definitely girls you can imagine running into. They’re really amateurs. (Boy, am I gonna feel dumb if I find out the whole site is fake.) So, the guys’ comments that are mostly very positive about each girl…. well, as long as you consider a guy saying he’d love to fuck you as a compliment, and I DO… they’re just cool. And the occasional mean comment here and there only makes the nice ones seem more authentic.

I don’t want to end up just posting links to sites I like, but I’ve been surfing a bit and some of these sites are just too neato keen to not share! Enjoy!

I’m so proud of myself! The other day, for the first time ever, I came while masturbating by using my hands. I’d never done that before.

I’ve read about guys who say they’d like to see a woman masturbate and I always thought, “Boy, would they ever be disappointed watching me!”

I learned to masturbate when I was very young and have done it almost the same way every since. I lie in bed on my side with a pillow between my legs. I use one or both hands to pinch and play with my nipples. I rock my hips against the pillow. When I’m close to cumming, I use one hand to put pressure on the pillow so I can really grind hard against it. (All the while I have a running fantasy going on in my head, too. That’s just as essential as the physical stuff.)

Until I found out how fabulous the pillow was, I used to do the same thing, but by just squeezing my thighs together, rhythmically tightening my pubococcygeus muscles (aka Kegel muscles), and rocking my hips.

Now whenever I’m with a guy and really into things — really turned on — my hips rock. I can’t help it. They just do it all by themselves!

Anyway, I was reading this book that’s supposed to teach women to cum more easily and it has these “exercises” to do. And I though, oh what the hell, why not. And it worked! It took a LOT longer than usual, but it did work. I still had to play with my nipples and fantasize at the same time, but I don’t think that was against the “rules.” It felt different than my usual self-induced orgasms, too.

I do sometimes have trouble cumming when I’m *with* a guy. My mind gets distracted and I start worrying about it taking too long. And my mind has to be focused on what’s going on for it to happen, so being worried just makes my worries MORE likely to happen. Downward spiral from there.

I’m just amazed when I hear about women who don’t masturbate. Crazy.

Anyway, now I have to try the rest of the exercises, too!

So many thoughts on this topic…

I would never become interested in a guy *because* of a picture of his penis. I highly doubt there are any women who would. (Ok, there’s probably *some*, but there’s always an exception to any broad sweeping generalization!) I do like the chance to get a peek at a guy’s tummy though. I have a huge bias against guys who have a bigger tummy than I do. Yes, I’m extraordinarily influenced by “looks.” So sue me.

Anyway. I’m also not *opposed* to dick pics, though. And I think I’ve become more turned on by them the longer I’ve been on AdultFriendFinder and the more of them I’ve seen. A lot of them DO turn me on. I *really* love the idea that those organs have become engorged with the help of thoughts of me.

BUT. Yes, of course there’s a rant (sort of) in here somewhere. There are some photos on AFF that really make me wonder… let’s just say that some guys really shouldn’t be presenting their penis right away. They should let someone get to know them first. Find out about their *good* qualities. Just as there are few women who would have sex with a guy *because* of his penis, there are few who would NOT have sex with a guy because of it. But…

Ok, look. Some cocks are really really ugly. Unattractive. Weird looking. Or — dare I say it? — really REALLY small. And I have to wonder why these guys are *advertising* them! Ewwww.

OTOH, the first guy I ever met up with from AFF had the most gorgeous cock photo I’d ever seen. And it really was beautiful in real life, too. Not that he didn’t also have other great qualities. I’ll stick to my claim that great cock alone is not enough, but it sure caught my attention.

So, yes, I like cock shots. (Ahem, in more ways than one!) But, I need both a face pic and someeone who gives good email before I’ll consider … well, anything actually.

All this reminds me that I think it’s time for me to come up with some new pics for me, too. Another thing for me to add to my to do list.