How messed up are you!

Just kidding.

I’m really just posting to congratulate you on the bold move you made to stop worrying about what other people think your sex life should be like, and to say “This is what I want” for yourself.

Not a lot of people can do that. In fact, most can’t. I’ve done some things myself that most people would say, “You should be ashamed!” and yet, I can’t do that. Or rather, I won’t.

I’ve said before that sex is empowering, and the Holy Terrors and other prudes can’t have people being empowered. If people are empowered, they can’t be controlled. And the most effective way to control someone else is through shame.

Hope you continue to enjoy that sense of empowerment you’re feeling. Reading through your posts, it looks like the people who’ve criticized you think you’re this passive, submissive, easily bullied, easily exploited, delicate flower, just a punching bag to be knocked around with big throbbing phallic symbols.

I see someone different. You sound like someone who’s taken charge of her sexual situation, and that takes guts.

Congratulations.

P.S. Thanks for the post about sexual addiction and the “test.” I’ll have to check that myself. I’ve got a feeling I’m a hopeless case.