It’s possible, but it will be very hard to find such a guy, they are pretty rare. The biological imperative is not to share your woman in order to insure your genes get passed on. That’s your first fight, then societal conditioning about male/female roles and what is acceptable is your second fight.

And you probably are looking for love. The kind of treatment you are looking for requires a little stronger emotion than like does I think. There would need to be a strong foundation in order to share, a foundation of trust, a lack of jealousy and also of protectiveness and these things come from more than a casual “like” relationship. The kind of duality of being a shared-slut, then held and cuddled and missed when you are gone is a complex relationship and a lot of work for “like”.

But this pessimist will tell you to keep trying, you seem to have good built in defenses for your disappointments and as long as you are careful you’ll have a lot of physical fun trying to find what you are looking for.

It took me a long time to find what I wanted, and then after a while she decided the lifestyle wasn’t what she wanted but the early training and owning was fun and worth it.